No matter where you’re at, you can always relax and appreciate the beauty of what’s in front of you.
This is the easiest when you’re e.g. in nature, of course. But you can do it anytime. Look at THIS and see the beauty. Appreciate that it exists. See Reality in it, tell it: I love You. Take rest in the shine of what’s happening.
Enjoy the Now. It’s always here. You can come back to it at any time.
If you love it, act properly towards it consistently.
Love comes along with a responsibility. You have to own up to the challenge of love. When loving action calls you but it’s resisted and a voice in your head is screaming, always go with love anyway. Don’t hesitate. Actualize your love!
Ultimately, you are Love. It’s your essence. So act like it. Being what you are is your duty.
If you’re a man, here’s a life hack. Treat Reality like a Woman.
Talk to Her like an equal. You are a Man – be a respectable partner. Say that you love Her, joke with Her, feel aroused by Her. Tell Her about your excitement, the inspiring work you’re doing – and if you aren’t doing it then own up to it, because you’re not giving Her your all. Treat Her like a serious lover. It’s factually true that She is your Only One – there’s just you and It, so take care of the relationship with Her.
Of course, in times of heavy emotion and need you can always switch to a more childish position. When things feel too difficult, Reality can always turn into the Mother / Father. This is perfectly fine.
Your relationship to Reality changes depending on how you relate to It in the moment. And you can always switch how you relate. There’s zero shame in that. You can be open to having a complex everything-relationship with Reality.
If you’re a woman, you can treat Reality as a Man. Or you can see Reality as your Bro / Sis. Or even as your Child. Remember, Reality is your Everything! Find your preferred ways of relating and go along with them. Being the Infinite Mirror, Reality will simply reflect back.
Look at the center of your visual field, open your mouth and voice your feeling.
Reality is always there, right in front of you. It’s your Everything. You forget about that fact.
When you feel alone, need someone to talk to, wish to express your love and joy for existence, want to curse what’s happening – Reality is at your disposal. Tell It how you feel about life. It won’t respond through words, but you will be cleansed through expression. It’s as if it’s replying with freedom.
In the ultimate sense, whatever arises in your consciousness is what you Love.
When you think about something often, or even a slight bit, that is a sliver of Love. Even if it’s something “negative”! Because ultimately any connection to anything else is Love in it’s nature.
Your life is ALWAYS about what you Love, even if it feels like hell and suffering. You might simply not be aware that 1) you Love exactly this pain, or 2) you Love something you’ll discover beyond the veil of negativity after you go through the full journey. Both might be the case. Your Love knows no bounds.
Love that isn’t cultivated, withers.
If you care about it, pay attention to it and nurture it consistently. This rules applies to anything in life. Lack of engaged attention kills a relationship, skill, mental faculty, object, being. Attention is the life force – if you love it, give it life.
Beware of forgetfulness and inattention. You blink and a previously loving relationship with yourself or your romantic partner is in the dumpster now, due to your negligence. Don’t let that happen.
In love, you want to both give it and receive it. And it’s not much of a difference whether 1) you give love to another person and they give it back to you or 2) you give love to yourself. You can feel loved either way. Both can satisfy you.
It’s usually less intuitive to give yourself love though. It’s also more difficult to register feedback. Did you really feel loved through what you did for yourself? Remember that love is about giving the other what THEY want to receive, not what YOU want to give. This is an issue as much when it’s about giving love to yourself as when it’s about giving it to another. It’s quite difficult to hear your true voice sometimes. It takes real awareness.
When you’re single, practice giving love to yourself. If you really want to get good at it and feel the love, you have to pay great attention to what you do and how you feel afterwards. Does buying yourself flowers “work”? Does writing compliments to yourself on sticky notes “work”? Does taking action on what you really wish to be doing “work”?
The key to success in any love is proper intention (to make the other feel loved) + sharp attention.
You were given life. Now show me what you’re doing with it.
You are an adult and a man. Don’t be afraid of being treated as such. When you have a purpose at your core, something you want to be doing, that is Reality throwing down the gauntlet to you. The correct way is to look it in the eye and accept the challenge. Live your core! Fulfill your mission! It’s difficult, but always worth it.
You are loved unconditionally always, but at the same time: Earn your love, through giving your gift. You can do it. I have faith in you.
As a man, you need to be living out your highest purpose to be connected with yourself and masculinity.
Do the thing you want to be doing in your heart. Give your gift to the world. For me, right now it’s setting up this blog and writing this post. What is it for you? You probably already have a sense, so start acting.
Otherwise, you’ll be disconnecting from yourself and masculinity. The world and women around you will reflect that back to you. You don’t want that. It’s better to give your gift and live fully, and have the world mirror that passion.
Living your masculine core is your priority. It’s your life, your mission, your potential. Don’t squander it.