No matter what happens, there is ALWAYS hope.
Problems and states that feel inescapable are never actually that. You have to trust in the truth of impermanence. There’s power in you to go through anything and leave it behind you. Nothing ever sticks to you forever.
Remember your power. Have confidence in yourself. You have it in you to make it, and you’re always supported. There is Infinity in the place of your head and your Godhood is a gift. You were made to persevere.
If you’re a true lover, you are genuinely interested in that which you love.
I invite you to be a profound lover of Reality. Have a sincere interest in what’s around you. Be fascinated by other people, listen to their stories & what moves them. Notice how whoever you give honest attention to and let them speak their mind, opens up and blossoms in front of your eyes. Reality flowers when you give it attention. It’s a beautiful thing.
Perhaps most importantly, be curious of the reality of you. Your Self blossoms when you simply observe It and let yourself do things. It’s a spectacular unfolding to witness.
You must feel influential to respect yourself as a man. You should have a distinct awareness of your power.
Here’s a tip on how to work on that:
Confidence in your strength will come from the truth of your actions, how “cool” to you they were. Having a backlog of your achievements is key to self-assurance.
You are Power incarnate. Live up to the name. Go kick some ass.
When you let go and let Steerage guide you, it will often feel like it’s going against your deepest intuitions.
This is normal. Trust where you’re being guided in reality, instead of listening to the screaming voice in your head. The voice is NOT a reliable narrator. It doesn’t really know what’s correct or right to do.
It can be hard to do in practice, of course. For most of us this voice is all we know, and we consider it ourselves. But that’s not true, it’s not you! The REAL You is what’s you’re being silently guided to out there in Reality.
Steerage is silent and simply moves you in Reality when you let go. The voice in your head is loud and trying to sway Reality into what it thinks is best – but actually doesn’t know. Follow the former and you’re good to go. :)
If you truly want it – let go of it!
If it’s true will, it will come to reality. You don’t need to force anything. You just have to be open to whatever wants to happen (and act when it’s required of you).
“Help” the universe bring your (true) dreams to life by letting go and removing barriers for the stream. But don’t insist on things and try to speed up the water, or even create it in the first place. You can’t really alter the stream. You are what you are currently, and you should accept that.
Let Steerage guide you. It knows better than you. All of your deepest wishes will be actualized in ways you couldn’t ever conceive of if you let it move through you.
Every time you’re talking to someone, acting out an energy, reacting to an event – you are interacting with Reality.
It’s just you and Reality. It may look like there are multiple separate people and events, but in truth they are One Thing. It’s really just you and God.
Fighting with someone is Self-interaction. Having sex is Self-interaction. Fearing a tiger in front of you is Self-interaction. Looking your gf/wife in the eyes lovingly is Self-interaction.
If you’re conscious, you can see Reality in everything. Because it literally is everything. And you can realize that all of your life is spent interacting with God. See it and make your relationship to God beautiful.
It’s not true that what you specifically hope for will always come to reality.
But it is true that everything will always be okay in the end. That no matter what is happening, you are able to live through. That reality goes on and you can always come to terms with it. And even when you lose everything, there is still hope. A light at the end of the tunnel.
Have faith in what’s true. Hope is one of these things. Let it be your north star.
You can be Hope incarnate.
A person is cool when they 1) follow their heart confidently and 2) don’t concern themselves with insignificant stuff.
In essence, you are cool when you’re moving from a place of lightness. Your Self is guiding you freely towards what you most genuinely want and deep inside you feel like everything is alright, thus you’re confident and unworried. In contrast, when you’re constristed, you are not letting yourself be guided, you’re micromanaging and latching on to a sense of control desperately – which is making you neurotic, worried and stressed.
Loosen up. Give up your desperate insistence on things. Surrender and go with how your being is guided in reality instead. Things that are truly relevant will come to you effortlessly then.
That’s just how cool people do it. 8)
Can you be happy with the place you’re at in life currently?
If you’re suffering due to feeling stuck and “inability to change”, accepting the current state is at least part of your answer. Love the current reality of you, however difficult it may be. Being content with this reality is a prerequisite to moving forward. First accept what already is, then life will be able to give you more.
A deeper motivation is doing it for the sake of it. Not because you want reality to change, but because you genuinely want to love what is. That’s what being love is about.
Essentially, your energy starts to morph/flow once it is acknowledged for what it is currently. And when it’s resisted and denied, it freezes in place. “What you resist persists”.
To make love flow, you must open your heart to anything that arises and welcome it.
Distressing feelings can arise frequently. When you have time, focus and let yourself process them freely. Don’t run away until they’re dissolved. Stay with them for as long as it takes.
Keep track of how you’re feeling during the day. If something started tormenting you, process it immediately or plan a time for doing so. Don’t become numb to it.
Repeatedly cleanse your heart from barriers to your love. It’s the only way to move on from things and be light and happy.
You can set up regular heart cleansing sessions for yourself. You’ll be better mentally prepared when it’s scheduled. A question you can ask is: “What wishes to go into my heart that I’ve been running from?”.
Suffering due to breakups, loss of loved ones, failures, health problems, guilt, shame, shattering of illusions and collapse of worldview, fear, attachment.
The full scope of pain throughout one’s life is incomprehensible. Imagine the intensity of taking it all at once.
Life goes on in spite of the suffering though. There’s so much beauty to live through, too. The journey is worth it, even if it’s hard to feel like it sometimes. Keep your chin up and keep going. I have faith in you.
You are the Universe. You are the Dream. You have Infinity for a head. You’re not a human, in truth.
Sometimes it can feel overwhelming, but it’s really a blessing. Live out this gift. There’s nothing like It!
You are this amazing not-Thing. Infinity. One Big Paradox.
What if you gave up control and let your Self move through life? That’d be the only way to see how Self actually looks. You can’t predict it beforehand, since it’s mysterious in its nature and silent.
Aren’t you curious about the truth of your character and motivation? Wouldn’t it be interesting to learn who You really are? What You genuinely want to do?
There’s what you think you want or should be. And then there’s what You actually Are.
You can be intrigued by Yourself. Have an attitude of not knowing who You are, and want to discover it. It’s true that you don’t know who You are anyway. So let Yourself do things and satisfy your curiosity.
From an energetic standpoint, reading is literally downloading information out of nothing. This is relevant to all other ways of acquiring information too, including contact with “other people”.
Physical reality is a dream! It’s completely empty. You’re not really getting information from a book – what’s happening is that your mind is morphing into a mind with that information, by itself. Here’s how to understand this:
Visualize that you’re reading a book. Now, subtract physical reality from the equation – but stay in the exact same state, as if you didn’t notice that physicalness disappeared. What’s happening energetically? -> You’re “acquiring” thoughts that were previously unknown to you. There’s a “downloading” happening – but it’s being done by nothing, out of nothing! Since you are God and The Only Thing. You’re changing by yourself into something new that you weren’t in the previous moment. It’s literally magic!
When you put yourself into a state of openness and intentional listening, you start pulling rabbits (energy/thoughts) out of the Infinity/Nothing hat. That’s the beauty of God for you.
As a man, living your purpose is the most important. It’s more important than your relationship with a woman.
If you feel otherwise, you will be weakened. You’re doing both of you a disservice. In truth, she wants you to focus on your mission and live your core anyway. If you’re prioritizing incorrectly, you’re really messing up everything in life – both your purpose and the relationship.
Note 1: In line with the above understanding, don’t prioritize your mission for the sake of the relationship. Do it for the mission, REALLY. What do you want to be in life most? What do you want to actualize? Is it the most important thing for you truly? If not, then you don’t care enough! You’re spitting in the face of your True Self! Reevaluate your choices!
Note 2: You will find a way to put women over your mission even if you’re single. Striving to live your core with a secret intent to get laid and impress future women you meet. I must admit, I found that motivation in myself. I think it’s not wrong per se, as long as your primary motivation is your masculine essence. Which for me I can honestly say it is.