What you want comes to you most easily from a place of lightness. From not caring about getting it.
When you’re desperate, you’re not being magnetic. If you notice yourself in such a state, try to surrender it. Know that it is literally counter-productive. If you really want it, then stop caring about it so much! Send out your intention into the world and then genuinely let it go. Enter a state of being actually happy in the current moment, with what is.
“If you’re nothing without it, then you shouldn’t have it.”