Adam Why?

Month: August 2026 (5)

  • Become Naturally Sexual

    Sexual energy is an energetic component of what I am. If a sexual drive arises in you, this energy is a component of you too.

    Sexual energy can be integrated into normal character. It’s not about walking around horny and in need of actual sex all the time, it’s about integrating this energy’s expression into your natural daily life – for it’s own sake, even when nobody is around!

    The key thing is that sexual energy is a genuine component of you. It’s yours, and it’s expression can be unique to you. I think it’s important to learn how to express it authentically. If you’re struggling with that: instead of asking “How to be sexy?”, ask “What does it mean for ME to be sexy?”. And then acting authentically from that energy can be practiced.

    I want to emphasize again that sexual energy is not only about getting physical sex. I think its expression is a joy in and of itself. Being sexual is beautiful. It’s about how you express yourself in the world, what your attitude to it is; the things you say and in what style, your sense of humour, how you handle yourself, the clothing choices you make. It’s being uniquely you.

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  • Loving a Single vs Multiple Things in Life

    Being in love in life doesn’t necessitate loving a single (or very few) things only. You can also be in love giving your attention to multiple things.

    Essentially, I think two paths of love could be distinguished. 1) A path of sacrifice, where you’re focusing on loving a single (or very few) things and thus giving up all others. This is deep love. And then 2) a path of variety/exploration, where you’re loving many things at once. You have many different things in life that you’re giving your attention to, thus greater variety and “richness” of experience.

    For me, love has often been synonymous with the path of sacrifice. I daydream about surrendering myself to one meaningful vocation and giving my all to it. But I came to realize that the second path is totally valid as well. In fact, it’s probably the path of most people (?). Also, you can have different phases in your life, when the way you love changes. You can experiment around.

    Be in love in a way that works for you.

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  • Truth Can Conflict with Survival

    When you survival depends on living in an illusion, truth will feel like it’s in opposition to you.

    Suppose you realize that working at your job not only doesn’t improve people’s lives, but actually even harms them, all things considered. What are you going to do then? Really think it through, having in mind that your survival probably depends on that money.

    In truth, most jobs probably don’t improve people’s lives. So this concerns the majority of people – including likely you. Think about the impact your daily job has on the world. Do you want to keep living a life where your contribution to the world is soulless? Don’t you want to bring more love to the world? It’s possible for you and me. I’ll be making that leap – I’ll let you know when that happens.

  • Don’t Be In a Hurry So Much

    Slow the fuck down. When you’re in a rush, you’re not enjoying what’s the case in the moment.

    Be engaged in the current activity. Live in love, not in stress about the next thing. That’s how God would do it.

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  • Not Liking Someone You Love

    You’re not going to like some of the people that you love.

    You’re likely not compatible long-term then. But when you love, you have a mission to fulfill. Focus on it. Do your best to actualize it. You have things to receive from each other.

    Also, sometimes it can be a matter of learning to see that person differently. Make an effort to change your perspective. It’s for your sake – it will enrich you.

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