Adam Why?

Month: June 2026 (7)

  • Your Daily Choices Are an Adventure

    Every day is an exciting time. You’re making choices regarding what you’re acting upon, which affects your future life. Every good choice is one step forward, and you can usually make a few of them during the day.

    Making good choices is like playing this game of life well. And it’s exciting because YOU’RE the player – it’s completely interactive! And each good choice brings YOU a step closer towards something great. It’s amazing how you have the opportunity to energetically lift yourself up by the bootstraps. It rests upon you, and you have that power. It’s a blessing.

    “How you spend your days is how you spend your life.” When you treat your individual daily choices as an adventure, your whole life becomes one. :)

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  • Don’t Give In to Apathy

    Don’t let the voice (energy) in you saying “But what’s the point?” become more influential over voices/visions inspiring you to do something. Unless there’s something even more worthwhile worth doing (which does include simply being and enjoying Reality), you should move with the motivation that’s even faintly inspiring you.

    Don’t give in to thoughts of meaninglessness. An energy that’s making you rot away in bed or endlessly consume content is not worth listening to. Because compared to it, what’s the point of NOT doing something even slightly arousing you?

    Err on the side of doing something (compared to doing bullshit), even if it doesn’t immediately feel meaningful. Don’t be lazy. Summon your zest for life and get to action.

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  • Accept Reality and It Might Change

    Embracing the current reality is often a prerequisite for it to change for you. This is mostly regarding the inner reality of you – which determines what you do physically. You must accept the current long-term energetic state you’re in for it to change into something else.

    When you genuinely accept reality, you no longer want it to be different. You’re truly fine with what is. This state is precisely what enables inner reality to morph freely.

    If you REALLY want change, stop wanting it. Process it, cry it out if needed and become free of it. Surrender it to God. Admit that you don’t love Reality right now but you want to. Enter into the love.

    It’s key that you don’t go through this with the hidden intention still intact to change reality. You must REALLY let go of your unacceptance. Do it for love and the wish to be free and light. Free from your wanting, not from how reality is for you now.

    Radical acceptance is the key to profound change.

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  • People Couldn’t Have Acted Differently

    A person that hurt you couldn’t have acted differently from how they did. Because how they acted was truth/reality. And truth cannot be any different from what it is/was in the moment.

    There’s only one way in which Reality is unfolding. It’s what’s happening now. It’s Fate, always.

    Don’t count on people changing and stop resenting them for acting how they did in the past. It couldn’t have been otherwise. The path to your emotional freedom is to accept what is/was and stay in that love always.

    (This doesn’t mean you should excuse toxic behaviour. Your actions/feelings are Fate too, so if you decide to no longer be around someone, then that’s what it is.)

    “When you go out into the woods, and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. […] And you look at the tree and you allow it. […] You appreciate the tree. The minute you get near humans, you lose all that. […] And so I practice turning people into trees, which means appreciating them just the way they are.” – Ram Dass

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  • Be the Presence to People’s Loneliness

    A lot of people feel lonely inside. Even if they don’t look like it. They might even be surrounded by many people and still feel it.

    Make sure that you’re alleviating a person’s loneliness through loving attention when you’re meeting them. It’s compassion. It’s what Love does.

    Assume that a person feels lonely until proven otherwise. Seriously. Loneliness is not an exception, it’s usually the norm.

    The best way to teach yourself being Love is through being there for yourself first. You will then be Love for others too. (I think the skill transfers less the other way around. Loving yourself is usually less intuitive.)

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  • If You’re Lonely, Be There for Yourself

    Feeling lonely stems from a lack of loving attention on yourself. Other people can relieve that by giving you their attention, but you can also do it by yourself.

    The key insight is that all attention is the same. It doesn’t matter if it comes from you or someone else. All attention is identical in it’s nature – so get rid of the notion that only other people can help you with loneliness.

    Learn to give yourself loving attention. Listen to yourself. Give yourself space to express your feelings. Do what makes you genuinely feel loved.

    Be there for yourself and for others. Also, let others be there for you when they offer it.

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  • Energies Are False Idols

    The voices (energies) that you’re convinced by to act on them are your gods. When you trust in an energy and allow it to manifest through you – whether you’re conscious of it or not, that’s having a god in your life.

    Notice how superficial the concept of religious belief in a god is compared to this. There’s what you think about god, and then there’s who your ACTUAL gods are. How many people actually believe in GOD? Almost none in the grand scheme of things. How many atheists have gods in their lives? Almost all of them.

    Energies are false idols. They are not God / Truth / Reality. If you trust in them and what they’re telling you, you trust in something lesser.

    Notice how in contrast Steerage is silent. It’s not very convincing – in fact, your mind will often be screaming with very compelling, logical arguments to go the other way. Steerage doesn’t force Itself upon you. You just have to trust It.

    Bring this tangibly back to your experience by examining: “What did I do today? What compelled me to do so? What was “I” telling myself?”

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