Adam Why?

Month: April 2026 (30)

  • Be the Divine Soldier for Reality

    In a way, a man’s mission is to serve Reality. To obey the Self and surrender in the action performed by Guidance/Steerage.

    When you’re in that flow, what genuinely wants to be expressed in the moment is being done so. Stay surrendered courageously and don’t interrupt. Your input is not needed – just your consciousness and devotion.

    Ultimately, you’re serving Yourself. Be curious about who you are, treat this divine mystery with utmost respect, and serve it – instead of questioning, judging and interrupting it. Accept Yourself. Fulfill the duty to the best of your ability, like the divine soldier that you are.

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  • Do Your Best Work in the Morning

    Different people are most clear-headed and productive at different times during the day. I get that.

    But there’s something powerful about doing your most meaningful work first thing in the morning. Before you go to your day job, for example. It’s great when you know for the rest of the day that your purpose work is done for now. And you’re excited to go to sleep and wake up early to get it done the next day.

    Whatever feels most significant to you, doing it early in the day is probably best. It’s been really inspiring me lately.

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  • Enter the State You Want to Be In Now

    Whatever state you want to be in, you can enter it in this moment. You don’t need external circumstances to be aligned for you to do it.

    My friend and I always laugh at how we’d sometimes rush to reach a place (eg. a park) where we want to relax at. Completely absurd! Ego dynamics at their finest.

    • If you want to relax, start relaxing now. You don’t have to be at the park or wherever to enter the state.
    • If you want to work, start working now. Even if you’re not in a conducive environment, just start doing what you can. Maybe e.g. you don’t have a laptop with you that you use for work, but you have your phone – start planning and thinking things through. When you enter the state, you find a way to do what you want by any means.
    • If you want to feel love and closeness from meeting your partner and feel your heart open, enter the state now. It’s not really about seeing the person in physical reality. It’s energetic. Flip the switch in your mind right now, which you can do. Don’t wait for external circumstances to happen.

    Entering your desired flow of energy is always possible for you. Just do it now.

    The beauty of energetic reality is that shifts can happen instantaneously. Understand this property and harness it. It’s magic.

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  • Don’t Be Desperate for Things

    What you want comes to you most easily from a place of lightness. From not caring about getting it.

    When you’re desperate, you’re not being magnetic. If you notice yourself in such a state, try to surrender it. Know that it is literally counter-productive. If you really want it, then stop caring about it so much! Send out your intention into the world and then genuinely let it go. Enter a state of being actually happy in the current moment, with what is.

    “If you’re nothing without it, then you shouldn’t have it.”

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  • Be Skeptical When You Intake Information

    Question what you hear and read, especially from sources you trust and like. It’s easy to “question” something when you don’t agree with it from the start.

    People/sources are always a mixed bag. Even if you agree with half of what a source is saying, take notice of the other half. Don’t just ignore it and read or watch for “the good stuff”. Pay attention to specific points you disagree with and make a note of them in your mind.

    When reading a book, for a long time I just underlined what resonated with me and put exclamation marks next to it. Now, I also put question marks next to what I’m not sure of or plainly disagree with. It’s good practice to be skeptical when you intake information, even if you like the source.

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  • The Desire to Forget Something but Keep It

    Mind sometimes wants to hide away a thing it’s attached to that is resisted somehow, but won’t throw the thing away – it wants to still have access to it. Distance something, yet have it within reach.

    It’s a funny dynamic. To wish to forget something, but still truly remember it. An intermingling of resistance and attachment.

    I was made aware of it when I noticed myself stash away some things related to my last relationship in the deepest drawer. Once I became conscious of it, I took these things and put them out on front. To face resistance and difficult feelings. Soon, there might come a time to face the attachment and throw these things out for good – I will go wherever intuition guides me.

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  • Never Give Up

    No matter what happens, there is ALWAYS hope.

    Problems and states that feel inescapable are never actually that. You have to trust in the truth of impermanence. There’s power in you to go through anything and leave it behind you. Nothing ever sticks to you forever.

    Remember your power. Have confidence in yourself. You have it in you to make it, and you’re always supported. There is Infinity in the place of your head and your Godhood is a gift. You were made to persevere.

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  • Have a Genuine Interest in Reality

    If you’re a true lover, you are genuinely interested in that which you love.

    I invite you to be a profound lover of Reality. Have a sincere interest in what’s around you. Be fascinated by other people, listen to their stories & what moves them. Notice how whoever you give honest attention to and let them speak their mind, opens up and blossoms in front of your eyes. Reality flowers when you give it attention. It’s a beautiful thing.

    Perhaps most importantly, be curious of the reality of you. Your Self blossoms when you simply observe It and let yourself do things. It’s a spectacular unfolding to witness.

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  • A Man Must Feel Powerful

    You must feel influential to respect yourself as a man. You should have a distinct awareness of your power.

    Here’s a tip on how to work on that:

    • Have a list of action items that will make you feel powerful once you achieve them. I recommend small steps, not huge leaps. Focus on the reality of what you want – go for where energy really arises, what you’re really being guided towards.
    • Write a list of things you have done already in life that make you feel powerful.

    Confidence in your strength will come from the truth of your actions, how “cool” to you they were. Having a backlog of your achievements is key to self-assurance.

    You are Power incarnate. Live up to the name. Go kick some ass.

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  • Steerage Often Goes Against You

    When you let go and let Steerage guide you, it will often feel like it’s going against your deepest intuitions.

    This is normal. Trust where you’re being guided in reality, instead of listening to the screaming voice in your head. The voice is NOT a reliable narrator. It doesn’t really know what’s correct or right to do.

    It can be hard to do in practice, of course. For most of us this voice is all we know, and we consider it ourselves. But that’s not true, it’s not you! The REAL You is what’s you’re being silently guided to out there in Reality.

    Steerage is silent and simply moves you in Reality when you let go. The voice in your head is loud and trying to sway Reality into what it thinks is best – but actually doesn’t know. Follow the former and you’re good to go. :)

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  • Let Go of What You Want

    If you truly want it – let go of it!

    If it’s true will, it will come to reality. You don’t need to force anything. You just have to be open to whatever wants to happen (and act when it’s required of you).

    “Help” the universe bring your (true) dreams to life by letting go and removing barriers for the stream. But don’t insist on things and try to speed up the water, or even create it in the first place. You can’t really alter the stream. You are what you are currently, and you should accept that.

    Let Steerage guide you. It knows better than you. All of your deepest wishes will be actualized in ways you couldn’t ever conceive of if you let it move through you.

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  • All Interactions Are With Reality

    Every time you’re talking to someone, acting out an energy, reacting to an event – you are interacting with Reality.

    It’s just you and Reality. It may look like there are multiple separate people and events, but in truth they are One Thing. It’s really just you and God.

    Fighting with someone is Self-interaction. Having sex is Self-interaction. Fearing a tiger in front of you is Self-interaction. Looking your gf/wife in the eyes lovingly is Self-interaction.

    If you’re conscious, you can see Reality in everything. Because it literally is everything. And you can realize that all of your life is spent interacting with God. See it and make your relationship to God beautiful.

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  • The Truth of Hope

    It’s not true that what you specifically hope for will always come to reality.

    But it is true that everything will always be okay in the end. That no matter what is happening, you are able to live through. That reality goes on and you can always come to terms with it. And even when you lose everything, there is still hope. A light at the end of the tunnel.

    Have faith in what’s true. Hope is one of these things. Let it be your north star.

    You can be Hope incarnate.

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  • Being Cool Is Lightness

    A person is cool when they 1) follow their heart confidently and 2) don’t concern themselves with insignificant stuff.

    In essence, you are cool when you’re moving from a place of lightness. Your Self is guiding you freely towards what you most genuinely want and deep inside you feel like everything is alright, thus you’re confident and unworried. In contrast, when you’re constristed, you are not letting yourself be guided, you’re micromanaging and latching on to a sense of control desperately – which is making you neurotic, worried and stressed.

    Loosen up. Give up your desperate insistence on things. Surrender and go with how your being is guided in reality instead. Things that are truly relevant will come to you effortlessly then.

    That’s just how cool people do it. 8)

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  • If You’re Stuck, Love Where You’re at Now

    Can you be happy with the place you’re at in life currently?

    If you’re suffering due to feeling stuck and “inability to change”, accepting the current state is at least part of your answer. Love the current reality of you, however difficult it may be. Being content with this reality is a prerequisite to moving forward. First accept what already is, then life will be able to give you more.

    • Suffering due to not having a gf/bf? Love your current reality of being single first.
    • Suffering due to not being able to get a new job? Love the reality of being in this phase.
    • Suffering due to continual heavy, even depressive states? Try loving the reality of your reoccurring state. I understand this might not be a full solution (and it’s really difficult), but I’ve been going through something like it for long periods of time too. Loving it is a good step forward – and again, a prerequisite to change I believe.

    A deeper motivation is doing it for the sake of it. Not because you want reality to change, but because you genuinely want to love what is. That’s what being love is about.

    Essentially, your energy starts to morph/flow once it is acknowledged for what it is currently. And when it’s resisted and denied, it freezes in place. “What you resist persists”.

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