Can you be happy with the place you’re at in life currently?
If you’re suffering due to feeling stuck and “inability to change”, accepting the current state is at least part of your answer. Love the current reality of you, however difficult it may be. Being content with this reality is a prerequisite to moving forward. First accept what already is, then life will be able to give you more.
- Suffering due to not having a gf/bf? Love your current reality of being single first.
- Suffering due to not being able to get a new job? Love the reality of being in this phase.
- Suffering due to continual heavy, even depressive states? Try loving the reality of your reoccurring state. I understand this might not be a full solution (and it’s really difficult), but I’ve been going through something like it for long periods of time too. Loving it is a good step forward – and again, a prerequisite to change I believe.
A deeper motivation is doing it for the sake of it. Not because you want reality to change, but because you genuinely want to love what is. That’s what being love is about.
Essentially, your energy starts to morph/flow once it is acknowledged for what it is currently. And when it’s resisted and denied, it freezes in place. “What you resist persists”.