As a man, living your purpose is the most important. It’s more important than your relationship with a woman.
If you feel otherwise, you will be weakened. You’re doing both of you a disservice. In truth, she wants you to focus on your mission and live your core anyway. If you’re prioritizing incorrectly, you’re really messing up everything in life – both your purpose and the relationship.
Note 1: In line with the above understanding, don’t prioritize your mission for the sake of the relationship. Do it for the mission, REALLY. What do you want to be in life most? What do you want to actualize? Is it the most important thing for you truly? If not, then you don’t care enough! You’re spitting in the face of your True Self! Reevaluate your choices!
Note 2: You will find a way to put women over your mission even if you’re single. Striving to live your core with a secret intent to get laid and impress future women you meet. I must admit, I found that motivation in myself. I think it’s not wrong per se, as long as your primary motivation is your masculine essence. Which for me I can honestly say it is.