Listening and appealing to yourself are two distinct positions from which you can support yourself. Can you be in each one?
You are this multi-sided god with 1) the ability to switch your main current face to a different one in case of need, and 2) the wisdom/intuition to know which one is appropriate to switch to in a given circumstance. So depending on what you require – having your feelings released and listened to, or having your energy raised and sense spoken into you – swap your position/face.
The many-sidedness of you is godliness. Be an intelligent, resourceful, self-healing god. Give yourself what you need.