You can’t do one thing in the same way a hundred times and expect yourself or your partner to still feel loved through that act. Love requires variety in what you do, and/or how you do it. Doing something always the same way shows that you’re following some sort of schema and not pouring spirit into your love.
This is why it’s important to act on love consciously, not mechanically. When you act consciously, you’re unbounded from following rigid schemas. Lively intelligence guides you towards doing things a bit differently each time.
So play with love, express it zestfully and unboundedly. Infuse your acts of love with life, energy, consciousness! Making each one unique and vibrant. It’s these acts that are really felt by the other person.