When you catch yourself wishing for “something you don’t have”, stop. You’re not accepting reality and you’re insisting on diving deeper into that state. You’re emanating with lack.
Recognize this and switch gears – instead, shift to loving what’s here and now. If it’s difficult to enter this new state, wish to free yourself of this unacceptance and to love reality the way that it is. Wish to get this lack and suffering out of your system, wish to appreciate the beauty of what’s here, wish to surrender and be free from what you desire.
Let go of what you think you lack (falsehood) for the sake of what’s your current reality – which is what you have (truth). Embracing what’s real is lightness.