Learn to remedy your energy through appealing to yourself from a position of wisdom and lightness. It’s about being your personal counsel, motivational speaker, cheerleader and wise masculine support.
Try doing this when you’re feeling confused and lost. Enter the position of masculine counsel with the intention to: help yourself out, tell yourself what you need to hear (even if it’s harsh), enter a positive outlook on things and motivate yourself for action. Don’t give up if nothing comes up at first – channel this energy until the right perspective and advice arrive. Then tell it to yourself, either through speaking or writing. Do it until you feel more at peace.
The way I do it is: When I feel lost and in need of masculine grounding, I go for a walk in the wood, I start a voice memo and I begin talking to myself from this masculine counsel position. Sometimes it takes a while to refine the advice – through talking and thinking more along the way, it becomes more clear what I really need to hear and what outlook I want to have on things. I continue talking until I feel like I’m calmer, lighter and more positive.
Don’t shy away from being for yourself what you need. If you don’t have masculine advice readily available from a different person, give it to your system by yourself. It’s admirable to be energetically self-sufficient. Whatever energy you need, you can learn to fill yourself up with it on your own.